Gain Confidence, Self-Esteem & Assertiveness: Become a Confident Man
Would you like to be able to:
Conversely, would you like to stop:
If so, we have a lot in common. You see, most of my life I’ve struggled with insecurity, nervousness, and low self-esteem. Especially around women. I’ve done a tremendous amount of research into this problem and come to the conclusion that there are three magic ingredients to solving all these problems so that we can live the life we were meant to live:
Now I know you’re not stupid so you probably already realized this. In fact, really intelligent guys often are the ones who find it the hardest to feel confident around other people; especially hot women. This has certainly been my experience. We get stuck in our heads and end up not knowing what to say, or we say things that women don’t find interesting and they end up brushing us off; undermining our confidence with women even further.
Confidence is being comfortable in your own skin… And women love it!
So the real question is: how do you get confidence, if you don’t already have it?
There are two simple answers to this question:
“Of all the books I’ve read on women and dating, yours has been the most helpful”
– Peter, Sydney Australia
When I looked more closely at the problem of overcoming low self-esteem and a lack of self-confidence in my own life, I found a lot of snags that could get in the way of this simple formula.
Negative programming from parents or religion, traumatic childhood experiences, teasing, bullying, bad prior experiences with girls, difficult past relationships, negative thinking, anxiety, fear, and even a basic lack of self-love can all get in the way of applying these basic principles.
Well, then you’re just like me. Cold comfort perhaps, but after seven years of research I’ve put together a step-by-step program to help guys just like us hit the ground running.
You see, I concluded that there are four main areas to master:
And these are exactly the areas covered in The Confident Man Program.
Plus you get over 18 hours of audio downloads with self-confidence experts covering everything else you need to know from Tantric Sex to Being The Alpha Male… and more! And three bonus e-books.
Great question! I can honestly say that women definitely respond to me differently now, and I really feel different inside. I’ve done every step in The Confident Man Program and I still keep practicing them: the more I learn, the more I realize how well this works.
If you’re a tough case like me: super nerdy, or really insecure, or just uncertain about where to begin, this program will save you a heap of time compared to what it’s taken me so far.
And if it doesn’t work for you, or you just plain don’t like it, I’ll give you your money back.
I know what it’s like to lack self-confidence, because I’ve been there myself. It’s horrible. When we lack confidence as a man, it shows up all over our lives like a bad rash. We feel:
When we lack confidence, we feel rotten inside. It effects absolutely every area of our lives.
But that’s just the tip of the iceberg, because the way we act when we lack confidence affects all our relationships. Other people treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated. The problem just compounds itself and we end up feeling:
Lack of confidence makes us feel terrible about ourselves. We develop ineffective coping strategies, like avoiding uncomfortable situations, underachieving or becoming so driven to prove ourselves that we burn out. Yeah, I’ve been there too, and it felt awful. What we need in these situations is a true sense of inner confidence.
Women routinely say that the most attractive thing about a man is: confidence. That means that if you’re a man who lacks confidence, you’re hosed. Every move you make and every attempt to engage with attractive, appealing women will fail if you lack the confidence to pull it off.
Of all the areas of my life that were effected by the lack of confidence in my old self, my relationships with women were by far the most painful. Ouch. I feel bad just thinking back and remembering what it was like. The loneliness, the painful rejections, the failures, the cravings. It was horrible. Perhaps it still is for you. Confidence is the only way out.
When you lack confidence, you often end up settling for what you think you can get, instead of what you really want in life. When you settle, you end up with:
No wonder so many men end up defeated in life and feeling chronically depressed. We take antidepressants to escape the horrible painful reality that we didn’t get what we wanted in life… all because we lacked the confidence to get it. Tragically, many of us even end up committing suicide to escape the pain of it all.
On one of the saddest days of my life, I stood in the kitchen of my two-bedroom unit, still single and lonely at age 40. As I swallowed my antidepressant tablet, I wondered how on earth a smart guy like me had ended up down in such a pit of despair. All because I lacked confidence to really deal with the issues effecting my life. The emotional baggage that robbed me of my confidence even robbed me of my physical health and I ended up with Chronic Fatigue for three years.
I didn’t want to live a life dependent on mind-altering medication, so one day I woke up and decided that there had to be a better way. I took an inventory of everything that upset me about my life, and set out to take massive action to do something about it. That was the day I stopped being a victim and took control of my life.
I tried many different things in the process of building my confidence; some more successful than others. In the process, I reinvented my life as my self-confidence gradually skyrocketed.
When I looked around at many of my single male friends, I realized they were struggling with exactly the same issues as I was. So I built The Confident Man Program to cover everything I needed to transform myself from a scared little boy in a man’s body, into a Confident Man.
There is no instant answer to developing confidence. People who try to sell you instant confidence with no effort are lying and just preying on your vulnerability because they know how important this is to you. Building true inner confidence is possible and requires dedication and commitment. Having a mentor to guide you helps a lot too. I wasted a lot of time on things that didn’t work while I was still figuring out what the problem was and looking for the best solution. With the benefit of hindsight, I streamlined The Confident Man Program so you can save yourself a lot of time and frustration compared to what I went through.
Lots of people on the Internet give free advice on building confidence, with dicky time-wasters like looking at yourself in the mirror and saying “I love you!”, or chanting affirmations you don’t believe. None of that stuff worked for me, so I don’t recommend you do it. What I do recommend is the stuff that actually works.
Often we end up taking advice from friends who are no better off than we are. Or we read books by motivational speakers who clearly never struggled with confidence or self-doubt themselves and have no clue what it’s like. Make sure that the people you take advice from have actually travelled the road you want to travel, and achieved what you want.
Check out what other readers are saying:
“Freaking hilarious… and good advice”
– Dan Smith
“Reading Confident Man is a straightforward and easy to follow series of steps to make yourself more attractive to the ladies – from a visual, emotional and personality point of view. More than that, I found many points in the book to apply to life in general – so that’s the icing on the cake!”
– Bradley Tremill
“This book is amazing! I was so absorbed in it that I could not stop reading it. I just had to keep going in order to discover the next step or skill. It’s a totally engrossing and witty read. The information contained within its pages was both knowledgeable and insightful. The author has written about a subject that he is familiar with and he has obviously invested a lot of time researching and experiencing these steps and skills. Reading this book has completely altered my outlook on women and subsequently I believe that as a result of this book, my life has been positively influenced. Look out ladies here I come.”
– Jeff Robertson
“Graham thank you very much for your book! I read it after a date last night and have resolved to make big changes to my life particularly on the personal front. I know that if I don’t I’ll still be in the same rut and moaning about my life leading up to my 50th so I have to make changes now, particularly to my self belief and esteem. Thank you so much for giving me something which will transform my life. What you have written is so inspiring!”
– Stan Taskil
“When I read Confident Man, I found it hard to put down! It is fantastic 🙂 There is so much good stuff in there for both sexes.”
– Kristi Simpson
In addition to The Confident Man Program Guide, you’ll also get these complementary audio downloads to teach you everything you need to know about building true self-confidence. No matter where you are at now, you’ll find material here that will take your success in life to the next level:
The biggest single factor that undermined my self-confidence was growing up with a narcissistic, critical, controlling, emotionally unavailable mother. In this interview by relationship coach Suzanne Venker, I dive deep into the impact of my own controlling mother and how I recovered.
This revealing interview covers:
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Learn simple, practical strategies based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for building self-confidence. Dr. Russ Harris is a world-renown expert on ACT and the bestselling author of The Confidence Gap: From Fear to Freedom.
In this interview he will teach you techniques from his popular workshops and books, including:
Learn what you can do to develop the Alpha Male traits that boost your confidence and make you naturally attractive to women.
James Greenshields is a natural Alpha Male and Ex-Military Officer and who served on the front line in Iraq, and now runs his own business coaching men on How to Become More Successful in civilian life.
Listen to James comparing the physiological response of approaching a woman you don’t know, with the roadside bomb attack he survived while serving in Iraq. You’ve got to check this out. He’s an expert on anxiety, and how to deal with it.
In this interview you’ll learn:
Learn how to approach women in the street during the day from one of the world’s leading experts on Street Dating and Day Game. Dating Coach Alex Coulson teaches men how to approach women, runs dating workshops and live infield training to help guys improve their conversation and approaching skills.
In this interview he shares his most valuable tips that you’d normally have to pay hundreds of dollars in private coaching fees for:
Learn everything a guy needs to know to revamp his clothing style and become more attractive to women. Style and Fashion Guru Sharon Cullington coaches men on how to improve their fashion styling and dating life.
In this interview you’ll learn:
Get an unfair advantage over other guys with tips from Attraction and Dating Coach Hot Alpha Female. She advises guys on how to be more successful with women and knows intuitively what works with women and what doesn’t because she’s a woman herself. She also mines her hot girl friends for information on what they really want; not just what they say they want.
In this interview you’ll discover:
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a toolbox of techniques for getting the most out of your mind, and relating powerfully and confidently with other people. Daniel Smith is an NLP trainer and coach, and in this interview he shares the most powerful secrets of NLP for retraining your mind to build self-esteem and self-confidence.
In this revealing interview he shares practical wisdom on:
Learn ancient Tantric techniques to improve your sexual confidence with this workshop from Tantric Practitioner Martina Hughes. Many men have been socialized to suppress our sexual energy and this frank, practical Tantric sexual energy workshop will teach you everything you need to know about liberating your repressed sexual energy to connect with women.
Learn how to harness sexual energy to boost your self-confidence, ability to attract a partner and connect deeply in relationships and during sex. Hearing a woman talk about this is healing in itself. Over 2 hours of insights including:
Duration: 2 hours 21 minutes.
Discover how to unlock subconscious stories from your past so that you can get in touch with your natural inner confidence in this interview with Confidence Coach Todd Sedelmeier. You will learn:
In this insightful interview with Transformation Coach Moose Miller, you’ll learn the key techniques for dealing with difficult emotions and thought patterns that stop us from being confident in our interactions with other people. Practising these techniques consistently over time leads to a sense of relaxed confidence that men and women alike find tremendously appealing. Presence is the key to true inner self-confidence. You will learn:
Emotional wounds from early life can have a profound effect on our self-confidence and ability to be successful in life. Even wounds that we’re unaware of or reluctant to acknowledge can still profoundly effect us because they operate on the unconscious/subconscious level.
In this interview Holistic Counsellor Peter Saxon will teach you how to heal these wounds so you can develop a much deeper level of relaxed confidence. You will learn:
Do you ever wish that meeting beautiful women was as simple as walking up to them and saying: “Hi, what’s your name?” Well according to Jack D. Serrano from Date Masters, it is.
In this interview you will learn:
Regardless of how you currently feel about yourself and your confidence as a man, all of us have an inner warrior with genuine self-esteem, inner strength, a sense of purpose, a mission in life, and the self-confidence necessary to go after what we really want.
In this interview with Boysen Hodgson from The ManKind Project you will learn how to get in touch with your inner warrior, including:
This fascinating interview with Tantric Practitioner David Anderson discusses how you can use Tantric techniques to boost your sexual confidence and become more confident in relationships with women generally.
In this interview you will learn:
If the idea of learning a bunch of canned routines and fake stories grates on you like it does on me, you’ll want to listen to this interview by Leigh Louey-Gung from The Attraction Institute on how you can attract women by being real.
In this interview you will learn:
If you’re not a big fan of nightclubs with loud blaring music, does the idea of being able to approach attractive women you see going about their daily routines in a relaxed manner really appeal to you? Imagine once you learn to approach women confidently, and can travel the world never be wanting for female company.
In this interview you will learn:
One of the most powerful things I’ve done to continue building my own confidence is to join a men’s group and this interview with Men’s Group coordinator Brett Churnin from mensgroup.info explains why.
My experience of other males at my all-boys high school wasn’t a particularly positive basis for me to build trust in men. A men’s group allowed me to connect more deeply to other men and in doing so, connect more deeply to my own masculine power.
As if that wasn’t enough, you’ll also get these bonus e-books:
Mastering your emotions is absolutely key to gaining a relaxed state of confidence in virtually any situation, and this e-book by Emotional Intelligence guru Nicholas de Castella is the clearest, most concise book I’ve read on the topic anywhere.
In it you will learn the keys to:
This Bonus eBook Getting The Woman Of Your Dreams teaches you how to land and keep not just any woman, but specifically the girl of your dreams.
In this ebook you will learn the secrets to:
This Bonus eBook The Men’s Quick-Start Guide To Dating teaches you everything you need to know to date the women that you are about to start attracting.
Get the Woman You’ve Always Wanted – Even if You Haven’t Dated Before!
In this ebook you will learn the basics of dating, including:
This Bonus eBook The Top 100 Lovemaking Techniques Of All Time gives you one hundred amazing sexual techniques to spice things up sexually with the partner (or partners!) the new confident you will soon be attracting.
Here are just some of the techniques:
How much would you be prepared to pay for a deep feeling of self-confidence?
Worried it won’t work for you? Well that’s OK; I’d probably be sceptical too. Especially if I lacked confidence. Don’t let that get in the way: try it for yourself. If for any reason you are not completely and totally satisfied with your purchase of this program, just [intlink id=”6″ type=”page”]contact me[/intlink], and I will refund your money unconditionally.
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Success in life goes to the man who takes action. In fact, true confidence can only be developed by taking action; even in the face of uncertainty and fear. It’s time to start making this work for you rather than against you. You could pass up this opportunity… or you could take action right now to boost your confidence in life.
How will you feel on Saturday night when you’re desperate and dateless, trolling Internet dating sites or bars in the vain hope of meeting Ms Right, afraid of going after what you want. What will it cost you in terms of your own happiness if you don’t read this book?
You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. I think you’ll enjoy the read, and I know you’ll enjoy being a Confident Man. Every guy does. So read the book, check out the bonuses, and start having the success with women and life you’ve always dreamed of.
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Looking forward to hearing how much you love the Confident Man lifestyle,
PS: Don’t forget about the fantastic bonus products that come free with this life-changing program!
PPS: And remember the 100% money back guarantee. You have nothing to lose!
PPPS: Life rewards the man who takes action.
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